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The Countdown Gallups On . . .
October 14, 2008, 2:08 am
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When I want time to slow down, it leaps and bounds away.

When I want time to go quicker, it crawls at a hair-pulling speed.

T minus 16 days until we’re on the plane to Korea . . . time in Canada is slipping through my fingers.

I just spent the weekend with my extended family for Thanksgiving and tried to cherish every single moment with them. I found myself trying to create memories where I could bottle inside and hopefully recall when I feel homesick or too far away. How do you say goodbye? I keep saying and hearing from others that “it isn’t goodbye, it is see you later.” I really pray that is true and that we see each other sooner rather than later.

With Skype, Facebook, Blogging, IM, etc. . . we will be able to stay in contact, but somehow that only provides immediate comfort and to stop the tears from flowing while the actual face-to-face goodbye is being said.

I don’t know what the purpose of this blog is. I guess it’s kind of an apology blog if we were hoping to get together but it never happened. Maybe it’s also an apology if our goodbye wasn’t as spectacular or meaningful as you thought it would be. Maybe it’s an “I’m sorry” if you were hoping that some tears would be shed as we parted ways. No matter how our goodbye was or lack of a face-to-face goodbye, please know that I really do cherish your friendship and that I would still love to keep in contact.


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Me too. Well put.

Comment by Daniel Im

Don’t know if goodbyes ever feel “enough” or “just right”. We’ve done a lot and rarely if ever felt that way! Perhaps it has something to do with the fact that it is because we love people… and we can’t ever repay the “debt” of love: Ro 13:8…?

Comment by Liz

16 days!
Woah.
hugs

Comment by Emily

Love ya, hun. You have nothing to feel guilty about. No one can plan how a goodbye is going to happen, and no matter how they end up playing out, they’re never fun. We are praying for you guys and supporting you, and we’re SO proud of you for following God’s call on your life. It is not an easy thing. I admire you so much! You are a courageous, God-fearing couple, and I know that everything will work out perfectly, according to God’s plan. Look forward, not backward. Love you. Hugs Hugs Hugs.

-Soph

Comment by Soph

Thanks for all your thoughts, prayers, hugs, and encouraging words. We really do feel your love and are surrounded by the peace of God.

xo

Comment by imreadyforchange

Oh man Christina, what you wrote made me cry! What I’m sorry about is not spending more time with you and Daniel, not praying for you two more, not calling you just to ask how you are. God has blessed me immensely to have crosed our paths the way He did, and I really pray that we will meet again. I feel especially blessed that I was able to see you one last time here at RECC in the office and so happy to be able to say good bye again. So God bless you both in all that you do in Korea! I love you both!

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